Sebelum aku ngomong tentang jilbab (kerudung) aku mohon maaf kalo ada pihak-pihak yang merasa tersinggung. Sungguh ini ku tulis bukan untuk menghakimi atau menganggap bahwa semua jadi tidak benar. Ini semata-mata hanya sebuah perenungan dan melihat dengan kasat mata.
Dimulai ketika baca berita di detikhot yang memberitakan salah satu artis terkenal mau pakai jilbab tapi yang terlihat seksi . Masya Allah… terang aja jadi bulan-bulanan komentar . Pake jilbab tapi mau seksi . Seksi di sini pasti seksi dalam arti sebenarnya kan. Fisik tentunya… (mungkin dia mau pake jilbab tapi belahannya sampai kepaha dan jilbab yang ada belahan dadanya, sehingga belahan dadanya tetap terlihat. Atau berjilbab hanya kerundungnya saja sedangkan bajunya seperti yang biasa dia pakai. Aku kadang suka gak habis pikir, kok komentarnya gitu ya tentang jilbab….. )
Kembali ke jilbab atau sekarang kita sebut saja kerudung, karena menurut seorang teman yang aku pikir memakai jilbabnya “benar” adalah yang seperti orang-orang salah satu partai politik pakai. Model kerudungnya panjang sampai menutupi dada - malah kadang sampai perut. Lalu bajunya panjang sampai kemata kaki. Tidak pakai celana panjang, jins, kemeja panjang, pokoknya jauh dari pakaian-pakaian wanita yang berjilbab modern .
Sekarang memang banyak banget teman-teman wanita yang mulai memakai kerudung. Mereka jauh terlihat lebih cantik. Tapi mereka masih mengenakan celana jins ketat sebagai bawahan atau kadang celana legging yang dipadu dengan kemeja atau kaos lengan panjang. Atau kadang kaos agak ketat yang masih memperlihatkan dada.
Sekarang yang lagi in adalah memakai kaos ketat lengan panjang didalamnya dan diluarnya adalah baju lengan pendek (bisa ngebayangin gak sih..hehehe …) sehingga kalau wanita ini berjalan bisa jadi mengundang siulan jail juga.
Teringat dulu sekali waktu masih sekolah pernah ikut kursus dan salah satu pengajar mengenakan jilbab. Aku masih ingat betul saat itu beliau mengenakan baju lurus panjang ketat tanpa lengan diluarnya dan didalamnya terlihat kaos ketat yang membalut tubuhnya yang langsing. dibawahnya beliau mengenakan celana panjang yang ketat pula. Terlihat lurus … dan seksi ….. , waktu jilbab masih jarang dipakai oleh anak-anak muda. Aku bepikir ketika itu “ini guru seksi amat yah..walau pakai jilbab …)
yah kebanyakan kita meniru juga cara-cara artis muda yang berjilbab, yakin mereka masih terlihat seksi dengan segala accessories yang mereka kenakan. Tapi tentunya kita tidak bisa menjiplak plek seperti mereka para artis. Akhirnya sekarang banyak teman-teman wanita yang memakai jilbab tidak lagi mengacuhkan segi-segi keislamannya. Tentu ini bukan semua yah … aku tidak menyamaratakan, tapi ini yang terlihat sepanjang jalan.
Memang banyak baju-baju muslim yang memenuhi segi keislaman dijual yang bagus-bagus, tapi harganya bo …. hehehe jadi buat kita orang kebanyakan pasti memilih yang simple dan praktis sehingga kadang lupa harus bagaimana seharusnya.
Jilbab memang bisa membuat setiap wanita punya status - yah status bahwa benar-benar wanita muslimah- , tapi jilbab juga kadang bisa membuat wanita dicemooh … -pake jilbab sih kelakuannya gitu ….- (ini ada diseputar gosip tetangga ..)
Setuju untuk bahwa tidak semua wanita mengenakan jilbab yang terkesan seksi, tapi ada sebahagian wanita yang masih ingin memperlihatkan “aurat”nya meski telah berjilbab. Tak lepas dari mode dan model yang berjalan, cara berpakaian jilbab masih akan terus berevolusi. Semoga tidak membuat wanita yang memakainya seperti berjilbab tetapi “telanjang” ….
ietha,adjah
Rabu, 14 Desember 2011
Jumat, 08 April 2011
Kamis, 03 Maret 2011
Sabtu, 26 Februari 2011
Kamis, 11 November 2010
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Dear Mr. Gilhooley,
I am writing to apply for the programmer position advertised in the Times Union. As requested, I am enclosing a completed job application, my certification, my resume and three references.
The opportunity presented in this listing is very interesting, and I believe that my strong technical experience and education will make me a very competitive candidate for this position. The key strengths that I possess for success in this position include:
I can be reached anytime via email at george.gillhooley@email.com or my cell phone, 909-555-5555.
Thank you for your time and consideration. I look forward to speaking with you about this employment opportunity.
Sincerely,
Dear Mr. Gilhooley,
I am writing to apply for the programmer position advertised in the Times Union. As requested, I am enclosing a completed job application, my certification, my resume and three references.
The opportunity presented in this listing is very interesting, and I believe that my strong technical experience and education will make me a very competitive candidate for this position. The key strengths that I possess for success in this position include:
- I have successfully designed, developed, and supported live use applications
- I strive for continued excellence
- I provide exceptional contributions to customer service for all customers
I can be reached anytime via email at george.gillhooley@email.com or my cell phone, 909-555-5555.
Thank you for your time and consideration. I look forward to speaking with you about this employment opportunity.
Sincerely,
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